When the recess bell rings, most kids are thrilled and ready to burst out of the classroom. But some kids drag their feet because they feel left out, alone, not good enough, different than their peers, etc. Sometimes kids don’t even realize their classmates feel this way. That’s where The Buddy Bench can help! Here are some activities you can pair with this book!

About The Book
Written by Patty Brozo
Illustrated by Mike Deas

This rhyming book explores the different dynamics that take place on the playground and how some kids end up alone. The students of Miss Mellon’s class recognize a problem and with the help of their teacher, they create a buddy bench. This is a safe place for kids to sit when they feel left out or are looking for a friend during recess. I love the message it sends about empathy, inclusiveness, and friendship.
I think a lot of primary classrooms would benefit from sharing this story. After reading, discussions about how to recognize when others are being excluded and action steps to take would be extremely helpful. After all, the social dynamics that take place outside the classroom often carry over into the classroom.
If you don’t already have a copy of this book in your classroom or school library, you can find it on Amazon.
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The Buddy Bench Activities
Looking for a way to keep the conversation going about this book after you’ve finished the last page? Try this low-prep activity!

After printing these activities back-to-back, students can work on them in any order. The activities include:
- The Buddy Bench Writing Activity
- Recess-Themed Word Search
- Recess Activities Coloring Page

Once finished, you can place the activities on display, add to a student portfolio or memory book, or send home to share with families.
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Does your school have a Buddy Bench or Friendship Bench? I’d love to hear about it!
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